“Culture is considered to
be group-specific behavior that is acquired, at least in part, from social
influences.”
When
I look back over my life I realize that I’ve been influenced by so many
different social settings, and cultural influences. Of course our families are
first. Those first years at home dictate how we will think and feel about so
many things. Then comes Sesame Street and Mr. Rogers and eventually
kindergarten, and from there, it sort of gets crazy. Not only are you learning
from your teachers, but you are influenced by every text book, and every person
sitting in those desks in the room with you. Every time we moved, which was
quite a bit, all of these outside influences multiplied. Church was always a
big part of our lives and I was definitely influenced by Pastors through the years
and Sunday School teachers. If you think of all of the things, situations and
people throughout your life that had an impact, it is really pretty amazing.
Ten
years of living in an Eastern European country really threw me for a loop, but
had even more of an impact on our children, because it came during their
formative years. I’ve talked about this in earlier posts, but will probably
repeat it more than once. No matter what “social setting” we are in, we have to
be able to come back to an absolute standard for truth. How do we know what is
right and wrong?
Mr. Rogers said, “You make each day a special day. You
know how, by just your being you. There's only one person in this whole world
like you. And people can like you exactly as you are.” Really?
My textbooks and teachers from the 6th grade on
up taught that we are evolving, and there is some sort of “missing link”
between us and our “ancestors”, the primates. Seriously?
I had a Sunday School teacher in High School that told us
that people in our association of churches were the only ones going to heaven.
Can we say, lunatic?
I’m telling you that in 45
years I have had A LOT of information coming in and going out! How do we filter
it? I suppose I realized that many of the things that I post may have too much
of me in them. I never mean to be obnoxious or offensive. I’m sure there are
many of you who disagree with much of what I write. The older I get the more I
realize that I don’t know much. You know how when you finally get out of your
teens and the day comes that you realize your mother wasn’t so stupid after
all? Well, somewhere around 40 it hit me that everyone in the world has their
own idea of what is true. And guess what? They all think they’re right! But
I’ll let you in on another little secret. When two people disagree, they can’t
both be right, but they can both be wrongJ Only God is always
right and true on every issue, anywhere, all the time.
For the word of the LORD is right; and all his works are done in truth. Psalm 33:4